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I truly believe that a lot of, if not all of courtship has to do with timing. Everything you said this far is about supporting your own agenda of women settling for older men. We started out as friends and it lasted like that for almost 2 years. I am not looking for a 25 year old, they are immature, sometimes if I open the door or pull out the chair for them they look surprised, they do not get it.

This dude is way off base. You are the same as women who think men are only good for one thing…providing them with material things or money. Someone who has enthusiasm in life and has energy. Just my two cents, if it made sense that is. It is anon common. We need a partner, not a new son. Also you have to remember that we live in a disposable society if something is not quite right about someone we simply dump him. I guarantee that you'll love it and that it will really glad your eyes. And then there are those photos of newly svelte Valerie Bertinelli 49 flaunting her toned abs in a bikini. You are either here to support women or support your own agenda.

I know a few that do this and when I ask them out, they look at me like I had two heads. They are raising small kids and are looking for someone to be a partner. I am 33 and never had trouble attracting men in their 30s. If you want children and are older, you should have them.

Rowan Pelling's sex advice column: I'm 52 and dating a 29-year-old and my friends and family are shocked. Should I finish it? - I remember while on a business trip I had a encounter with an attractive woman who wanted to be more than friends.

Can you have hot sex forever? No problem—just stick to a careful diet, regular Pilates and the miracles of modern medicine. At least that's the message we're getting from the recent burst of celebrity cougar mania and new advertising campaigns from pharmaceutical companies promising that hormones will restore our aging bodies to their former glory. But is it reasonable for women over 50 to expect the same level of sexual satisfaction and drive as a 25-year-old? And is this what women really want? On one level, just asking these questions represents progress. In Victorian times, for example, doctors routinely warned midlife women to abstain because intercourse past menopause could be fatal. The exact mechanism for this predicted demise wasn't always clear, but physicians of that era did believe it was dangerous for older women to even think about sexual activity because erotic thoughts might, among other evils, evoke regrets for lost allure and those regrets could trigger disease. Medical literature and popular culture of the time mostly written by men, of course often portrayed women over 50 as borderline insane. The supposed reason: they were no longer appealing to the opposite sex. And then there are those photos of newly svelte Valerie Bertinelli 49 flaunting her toned abs in a bikini. We admire these women for getting out there especially Bertinelli, who. But frankly, they're all tough acts to follow for those of us without stylists and personal trainers. It's daunting to think that we are supposed to be as interested in sex as we were in our 20s and have bodies and wardrobes that mirror that age. When we were growing up, we rarely saw a college student and her mom wearing the same clothes. These days, that's commonplace—and we're not sure it's such a good thing. But there are certainly very real challenges. Women's bodies change as they get older—no matter how much yoga or liposuction they can afford. A slower metabolism makes staying slim a struggle. That's why the vast majority of American women over 45 are either overweight or obese. In order to enjoy sex, you have to feel that you're sexy. That's not easy if your self-esteem is tied to unrealistic images of eternal youth. Even for women who maintain a size 4, satisfying sex after 50 can be difficult. In a 2007 University of Chicago study published in The New England Journal of Medicine, half of sexually active Americans aged 57-85—male and female—reported bothersome sexual problems. The biggest issue for women is generally the lack of an able partner, usually because of death, divorce or erectile dysfunction in spite of Viagra. But even many women with partners struggle to find sexual satisfaction. At some point in their lives, about 20 percent of women experience painful intercourse, a condition called dyspareunia. When this happens to women after menopause, it's often because of hormonal changes in vaginal tissue—hence the ad campaigns for vaginal estrogen. Talk to your doctor. The pain could also be caused by another problem, such as infection, an allergic reaction or even an early warning of developing cancer. Many women find that their libidos take a nose dive as they get older. Hormones may play a role here, too, but low desire can also reflect how a woman feels about aging, her fitness level, stress, medications she is taking or problems in her relationship. Scientists used to think that men and women experienced sex the same way—in effect, a straight line from desire to arousal to orgasm. But now they see female sexual progression as a circle, with many interrelated factors—emotional intimacy, arousal, emotional and physical satisfaction and desire. Men can take a pill to stay aroused and enjoy sex as they get older, but women's responses are far more complex. All these obstacles to fulfilling sex converge just at the time in our lives when a lot of us were hoping that we could have a little fun after years of raising kids and running busy households. We fantasized about that empty nest and the chance to have spontaneous sex on a weekend afternoon without threat of interruption. Instead, many women say that with diminished desire and the pain, sex just isn't worth the trouble. If that describes you, don't give up. While it's true that in the University of Chicago study half of those surveyed reported problems, many were still having a pretty good time. In fact, the researchers found that those who were sexually active had intercourse about as often as much younger people. And some of the reported problems such as difficulty with lubrication or painful sex can be alleviated with products like water-based vaginal moisturizers or lubricated condoms as well as vaginal estrogen. It may take more time to feel aroused or reach orgasm so you and your partner might need to experiment with different and more focused forms of foreplay, as well as romantic activities to set the mood, like giving each other massages. If you don't have a partner at the moment, it's still important to keep the vaginal area healthy. Doctors say that when it comes to sex, the best advice is use it or lose it. Sexual activity encourages blood flow, which helps keep vaginal tissue healthy and makes it easier to become lubricated. Without a partner, of course, this means DIY masturbating. A happy sex life after 50 is still very possible, but you have to make an effort. Feeling good in your own skin and being open-minded and creative are what sexy is all about. In fact, many midlife women say sex gets better after menopause because they are comfortable with who they are, they know what they like and how to ask for it, and they don't have to worry about bleeding or pregnancy. Of course, it's also important to stay as healthy and fit as possible. But try to block out all the cultural messages that say that if you don't look like you're 20, you're not sexy. Our personal favorite role model there is actress , still sexy and glorious and proudly 63. And—by the way—still rocking a bikini.